While polygamy is often met with disapproval among Nigerian women, a recent video challenging this societal norm has surfaced, featuring a middle-aged Nigerian woman expressing support for the practice. This has sparked debates on social media.
In the circulating video, the woman, known as Tinuke Vibes on Instagram, confidently declares that her husband cannot exclusively marry her. In a message directed to her future husband, she insists that unless he is willing to take on the responsibility of marrying four wives, she would not consider entering into a marriage with him.
She describes herself as a considerate person, emphasizing that her husband cannot marry only her, expressing a willingness to be the second, third, or even fourth wife. The woman supports her stance by highlighting the gender imbalance in society, stating that there are more women than men.
Furthermore, she rejects selfishness, asserting that she cannot deny other women the opportunity to share a man, considering the demographic distribution. Offering advice to contemporary women, Atinuke encourages a shift in mentality for marital peace and suggests allowing their men to marry other wives.
In conclusion, she advises women to follow her example and choose a wealthy and capable man as their life partner.
Watch the video below;
See reactions below;
a_woman_with_a_littmann: Go girl. Her life, her choice. The problem is that polygamous men will leave this type of women, go after the ones that want monogamy and want to shove infidelity disguised as polygamous down their throats.
aadila1014: 5yrs to this time this video will surface again and hunt you. I just pray when the time comes make d man treat una equally so you won’t come back here to call him out as you social media addict.!
cylifeoftheparty: I love polygamy. A man is never wired for one woman.
ayoola_ab_: You wey be say e never sure say you go marry, who go marry girl wey get like 5 tattoos for body 😂😂😂.
david90_olly: God bless u jare .. na this kind woman we like to marry .. 😂😂.
topman_tech: Anything to trend sha. Lol. I am a man and i always say anyman that loves peace of mind will never marry more than one wife.
director_martins: lol Women don’t have a problem with you being polygamous. Women only have a problem with you being powerless. As far as women are concerned, with power, you’ve earned your right to be wrong. If she’s tired, polygamy solves it If she’s not in the mood, polygamy solves it If she has low libido, polygamy solves it If she’s unavailable, polygamy solves it If she’s on her period, polygamy solves it If she’s in postpartum, polygamy solves it If she’s acting funny & trying to deny you sex, polygamy solves it If she won’t cook/wants to starve you, polygamy solves it If she’s getting complacent, polygamy puts her on her toes If she’s unsubmissive, polygamy puts her in her place Polygamy solves everything. You just haven’t realised yet.
kuksbox: Social media get memory…. Wa dele gbo.
